34 Lessons I’ve Learned In 34 Years
Birthday thoughts.
- It’s a gift.
- Start each day with gratitude — not for the big things, but for the tiny bits of joy that are all around you. I promise they’re there if you stop long enough to pay attention.
- Embrace your laugh lines — they are souvenirs of beautiful memories.
- Grey hair is in fashion — you don’t have to dye it if you don’t want to.
- Always say “yes” to travel — the world has so much for you to discover.
- Always say “yes” to cozy nights in with your beloved — quiet times on the couch provide a landscape for discovery, too.
- Remember, it’s ok to say “no” to the things that do not serve you well.
- Remember that the above does not apply to vegetables — they will always serve you well.
- Drink more water.
- Drink more water after that, too.
- Take your vitamins.
- Take the time to talk to the ones you love.
- Take the time to do the things you love to do.
- Take time, or time will inevitably take you.
- You mean a lot to people — it’s ok to shower them with love.
- Remember to never hesitate in showering the ones you love with love, too.
- If you have curly hair, please don’t wash it every day.
- It’s ok to invest in a good shampoo, and conditioner, and hair products — even if you don’t have curly hair.
- It’s ok to invest in a good skincare routine, too.
- It’s ok to invest in you — however that may look.
- Looks aren’t everything — but it’s ok to care about your appearance, and that doesn’t make you a bad person.
- It’s ok to make mistakes.
- It’s ok to forgive yourself for them, too.
- Other people will make mistakes — it’s ok to give them the grace that you wish to be given.
- It’s ok to give — give your heart, give your love, give your attention, and give your time.
- It’s ok if there are days when you don’t have much to give — you cannot pour from an empty cup, dear friend.
- Try buying a cup or a mug that makes you happy, and then use it every day for your coffee or tea. It’ll make you smile, I promise.
- It’s ok not to be happy all the time. You’re a human being with a plethora of emotions — let yourself feel what you need to feel.
- Find friendships where you can be honest about your plethora of emotions. I promise there are people in your life who want to listen to you.
- Honesty and vulnerability are essential components of lasting friendships and relationships. Surround yourself with people who require no pretense.
- Surround yourself with people who make you laugh, too.
- Laughter is a blessing in this life.
- Count your blessings in this life.
- You can stay grounded and dream big, too. Life is about balance.
