Stop Romanticizing The People Who Won’t Even Text You Back

There is a difference between a busy person and someone who doesn’t put energy nor effort into responding promptly.

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But you push those feelings of hurt aside. You mute the little voice that tells you that they’re ignoring you or that they don’t care or do not have as much invested in your relationship. And then you do the thing that humans have done far too many times — you romanticize behavior that hurts your feelings.

Being busy is part of life — it’s not something that people get to hold onto as a justification for their lack of attention and interest.

I write essays and poetry about life lessons, love, relationships, and self-awareness. More info: + @meganminutillo.

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