5 Things You Can Still Control In Quarantine

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  1. You can control what clothes you put on in the morning. You get to decide if you spend the day in what you slept in — you get to determine if you put on jeans, or sweats, or a dress if that’s what you want to do. You get to decide you wear a bra or if you don’t. You get to decide if you put on clean underwear and clean socks, or perhaps you walk around your home barefoot. Your outfit is still your choice.
  2. You can control how you clean your space. It doesn’t matter if you’re living in your own house, an apartment, or if you have several roommates and the only area you can call your own is your bedroom or bed. You are in control of how that space looks. You get to clean your sheets, or make your bed, or make sure that your closet doesn’t throw up all over your room. You’re in control of the dirty dishes in the sink, and whether or not the toilet bowl is clean. The chaos of your personal space is entirely up to you.
  3. You can control what time you go to bed, too. I know you cannot always control insomnia, or the way your mind races and keeps you awake with worry. But you can control the pattern in which you try to relax before bedtime. You can control turning off the news and turning off your screens. You can control whether or not you have a cup of tea or a glass of wine. You can control if you take a bath or a shower. You control what you’re reading before bedtime — you’re in control of the things you consume that could potentially keep your heart twisted with fear.
  4. You can control how you show up for the ones you love in this crazy time. No, you cannot go and give them a hug. No, you cannot hold a dinner party at your house and you cannot meet your best pal for a cup of coffee — but you can call them. You can text them and remind them that you’re thinking of them and that you love them. You can utilize the technology that we do have to see their face. You cannot show up on someone’s doorstep — but you can show up on their screens.

I write essays and poetry about life lessons, love, relationships, and self-awareness. More info: meganminutillo.com + @meganminutillo.

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